My Style Upgrade for 2025: Finding What Works for Me

Fashion. It's a whirlwind, isn't it? One minute something is "in," the next it's relegated to the back of the closet. Lately, I've been feeling like my wardrobe needed a serious refresh. I was stuck in a bit of a time warp, clinging to styles that felt dated. So, I decided to embark on a personal style journey, exploring new trends and figuring out what truly works for me in the world of women's fashion.

The Business Casual Twee Era is Over (Thank Goodness!)

I realized I was still holding onto pieces from the 2013-2015 era – think business casual with a twee twist. While those outfits were cute at the time, they felt out of sync with my current vibe. I needed something more modern, more… me. The challenge was figuring out exactly what that meant.

I spent some time browsing online, looking at the latest fashion reports. To be honest, a lot of it didn't resonate with me. In fact, I actively disliked many of the outfits being touted as "must-haves." They just didn't flatter the models' figures, and I knew they wouldn't flatter mine either. It was a moment of clarity: I'm okay with being outside of what’s "in" if it means feeling confident and comfortable in my clothes.

Embracing Long Lines and Loose Silhouettes

One trend that caught my eye was the rise of loose-over-loose outfits. The key, I discovered, is finding creative ways to make that look effortlessly chic, not sloppy. It’s a fine line! I started experimenting with different combinations, playing with textures and proportions.

I've also been focusing on creating long lines in my outfits. I used to focus so much on horizontal silhouettes, which, in retrospect, were doing me no favors. By wearing longer tops, dresses, and jackets, I'm finding that I look taller and more streamlined. This has been a game-changer for my personal style.

The Return of the Classics: Lady Bags and Ballet Flats

I was thrilled to see that some classic pieces are making a comeback! Lady bags and ballet flats are very on-trend right now. The key is to pair them with more modern pieces, like wide-leg pants or bias-cut skirts. It's all about creating a balance between classic and contemporary.

Speaking of comebacks, pussy bows are back too! I'm not sure I'm ready to fully embrace that trend just yet, but I'm definitely open to experimenting with it. Maybe a subtly tied scarf instead of a full-blown bow?

My Unexpected Style Discovery: The Y2K Edge

While browsing the view all styles on Gracequeens website, I stumbled across something unexpected: a Goth Harajuku Women's Blazer. I wouldn't normally gravitate towards something like that, but the description intrigued me.

The Goth Harajuku Women's Blazer with the metal chains and hollow-out details really caught my attention. I have to say, this jacket from Gracequeens totally transformed my closet. I usually wear it with a simple black dress and chunky boots. It's the perfect way to add a bit of edge to an otherwise classic outfit. It's also surprisingly versatile – I've even worn it with jeans and a t-shirt for a more casual look. The quality is amazing, and I get compliments on it every time I wear it. The loose Y2K style is surprisingly flattering!

Tips for Updating Your Style

Based on my experience, here are a few tips for updating your style: